The Top 5 Wedding Etiquette Mistakes!

Wedding etiquette and traditions vary widely across the world for different reasons.  I will be the first to point out that traditions and etiquette have been broken over the past few decades.  However, I am a firm believer in tradition as many of our etiquette guidelines were established for a reason.  Weather it be to honor a culture or simply make a seemingly stressful day one that everyone can enjoy.  So, what are the most influential mistakes that both the bride/groom and their guests make?  Well, I am here to tell you the top five mistakes made!  Take note.

First:  Bringing the wedding gift to the wedding.  It is actually customary to mail the wedding gift prior to the wedding day (guest mistake).  This not only allows the bride and groom to unpack and address thank you cards before the big day, it also alleviates lugging all those wedding gifts home with a family member at the end of the night.

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Second:  Not sending a thank you note for ANY gift you received for your wedding.  This is a BIG no – no!  Believe me, as much as I could care less if my friend sends me a thank you note, there are those that take it very seriously (especially older family members).  Kidding aside, this is probably one of the rudest mistakes that you can make.  While they love you very much, all of your guests took time and money out of their life to witness your wedding day and a simple thank you for coming and for the gift is the least you can do.

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Third:  Not offering enough food at your wedding!  I know, I know, weddings are expensive these days and you want to have enough money to buy that beautiful dress, flowers, cake, ect…  However, be warned that if you chose to skimp on your wedding fare, it will NOT go unnoticed.  I am guilty of this even after over 15 years in the wedding industry, I still get disappointed when I come hungry to a wedding and there is not a sufficient amount of food.  Point is, don’t leave your guests hungry!

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Fourth:  Being late to the ceremony!!  You can go ahead and put this at the top of your list on things NOT to do at a wedding.  Being late is perhaps the most over looked expectation at a wedding.  The couple has spent A LOT of money on their big day and there are many factors that are affected when things don’t run in a timely manner; i.e. dinner could be delayed and not fresh, they may have only paid for a certain amount of time in the ceremony space, the whether could be sketchy, ect…  So, do everyone a favor and arrive at least 15-30 minutes prior to the ceremony start time.  This also ensures that you will get a good seat and not walking in the same time the bride is!

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Lastly:  Not R.S.V.Ping to the wedding!  Guys…this is everything!  Since it is customary at most weddings to provide each guests with an escort card, sending in your RSVP is very important.  Bottom line, if you don’t RSVP, you will not have a seat in the reception.  Which means that you are not accounted for in the food and beverage count either.  There is nothing more embarrassing that not having a seat and the staff having to scramble to find you a seat and possibly collecting more money from the bride and groom on wedding day.  Save everyone the trouble and put the already self-addressed envelope back in the mail!

Hello Boho Wedding!

I find it fascinating that the wedding, fashion and design worlds are so parallel!  What’s hot in the interior design world feeds off all that is going on in fashion and then seems to make its way into the wedding world.  This is why I am very enthusiastic about pulling your wedding inspiration from anywhere.  It could be a really cool restaurant that you visited in an amazing town or a friends house that is decorated to perfection.  Or it could be your favorite printed sweater of headband that inspires what your wedding day will look like.  If you want a unique wedding that reflects your taste, don’t be afraid and don’t over look the magic around you.

Right now, the boho chic/aztec style is for sure my favorite concept.  Here are some of my favorite ways to incorporate this fresh style into your wedding.

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10 Wedding Trends We Don’t Mind Sticking Around!

I find the wedding world fascinating when I step back and take an objective look every so often!  An ever – changing industry with different trends popping up everywhere.  Some stick around, others get the boot quickly.  For those that are here to stay, I have chosen a few of my favorites that I hope will be part of our wedding world for many more seasons to come!

Take a peak!

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Gourmet Popcorn Stations

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Catchy Chalkboard Signs!

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Blinged Out Shoes!

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Flower – Filled Terrariums!

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Dresses With Pockets!

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Fancy Drink Stations!

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Colorful Mixed Bouquets!

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The Behind The Door “First Touch”

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Cute Kid Table Ideas